Two Lovers, One Grave: Paul O’Grady Finally Reunited with His Lost Love Brendan
More than two years after the nation mourned TV icon Paul O’Grady, his grave in Kent finally has a permanent headstone — fulfilling his lifelong wish.
Paul, who passed away suddenly from cardiac arrhythmia in March 2023 at 67, wanted to be laid to rest beside his former partner, Brendan Murphy, who died of a brain tumour in 2005. For over two years, his resting place at St Rumwold’s Churchyard in Bonnington was marked only by temporary wooden crosses and small ornaments.
This week, Paul’s husband, Andre Portasio, shared the emotional update on Instagram:
“After two and a half years since Paul’s passing and a lengthy application process, we have finally placed the final design of his headstone at his grave.”
The dark grey stone bears both Paul and Brendan’s names, a touching tribute to a love that endured decades — watched over by a figurine of Paul’s beloved dog, Buster, his loyal companion who often appeared on The Paul O’Grady Show.
Fans were moved to tears, commenting:
“It just makes me weep with happiness that you included Brendan — such a beautiful and selfless gesture.”